Porutham Marriage
In India, a marriage is considered to be a sacred relationship, a marriage is to be held together at all costs. It is a relationship, in which, the husband and wife, get to understand each other, learn patience by understanding the faults and being tolerant with their infallibility, in short, learn to be together at times of happiness and distress. This is the reason that at the beginning, only after horoscope matching or jathaga porutham marriage matters are discussed. On the quality and quantity of the matching porutham, marriage success and failure depends.
Quality of Porutham in Marriage
Of the 10 porutham in marriage, some people check for 12 or more poruthams, most of the poruthams have 3 levels of matching, uthama, madhyama and athama. Here, uthama means best porutham, madhyama means average porutham and athama means no porutham. It is better that the best or uthama matching is preferred for all poruthams, which means the married life does not have too many ups and downs. These days, people sometimes compromise on the number of poruthams. But still, the major 5 poruthams such as dina porutham, gana porutham, rasi porutham, yoni porutham and rajju porutham are necessary to match before a marriage is finalized.
With the best of porutham marriages are bound to be successful and rain prosperity and happiness to the married couple. So, instead of compromising too much, it is better to wait for the best match for the boy or girl so that they get the best out of life's offerings.